How the heck do you remove friends?  

Jasminealive 55F
6 posts
1/11/2019 9:30 pm
How the heck do you remove friends?

and how do you make the decision who to keep and who to banish? At first when I got to this site, I just added anyone who asked. But now, looking at my list, none of them are what I looking for. I want female fun!
What do you guys think? do you check out people's friend lists and make any assumptions?
Let me know in the comments!

3431 posts
1/11/2019 10:36 pm

It's A Click Of A Button.


pocogato12 66F  
25426 posts
1/11/2019 11:32 pm

I do not add anyone as a "friend" unless we have a mental connection through IM or email/messages. Most of these folks are point hunters. I have at this time 115 requests for "friend status- I do not have the time to waste declining them. Think about what you want to call "friend"

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Jasminealive replies on 1/21/2019 6:24 pm:
I did not know you could get points for adding friends. You used to be able to get a month of gold membership for 4000 points, I think I read somewhere they don't do that anymore.

ltrskr 70M  
2931 posts
1/12/2019 1:36 am

Go to ur Friends list from home page, look for the "General Default" box.
Click on that, u will see a remove Friend, click it!

marriedcretin 48M
1186 posts
1/12/2019 4:20 am

You've got to be strict about it. If you haven't messaged or blogged with the person delete them. You'll soon get it down to a manageable number

FresnoWoman 48F
223 posts
1/12/2019 3:20 pm

I hit Decline most of the time. I won't accept anyone with whom I haven't at least had a good chat or two.

If we wound up meeting and it didn't work out, or if the chatting never progresses to a meet, I remove them.

Jasminealive replies on 1/21/2019 6:24 pm:
Thanks for the advice!

Jasminealive 55F
10 posts
1/21/2019 6:23 pm

Thanks everyone, I've whittled down the list somewhat. It took forever! I'll be more careful in the future.

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