Monday mission impossible 🤔  

aflower2c 45F  
5319 posts
4/15/2019 6:01 pm
Monday mission impossible 🤔

I follow Rain DeGrey on a blog site and the kink site, of course shes an attractive woman so she may not have full understanding about lack of partners. Lol. But I still enjoy the blog content.
Anyway, one of her blogs covered dating and being kinky, and the topic of "put yourself out there" came up. For which I covered already.

So curious if your standard dating pool is really small or does it have countless possibilities?
When you add anything extra on like swinging or preferring fmf/ffm is your dating pool still large?
What are you willing to give up just to find someone open to ongoing or gasp dating?

What is it like to have endless options available to you?

Living in the badlands with a great job, no mortgage, lots of space, but lack of men in the area.... makes miss flower wonder what it is like to constantly having your ego stroked by seeing a full inbox or lots of options.
(I have never had a full inbox even when I used to cam on here, so I really have no idea).

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

aflower2c 45F  
13099 posts
4/15/2019 6:02 pm

Because men made it very clear to only meet from paid dating sites means my selection is also limited to those guys that will pay for a dating site. Lol

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

2Saltie2 52F  
1071 posts
4/15/2019 6:22 pm

I don't date anymore. Not in some time. I have met for kink. For me it's is easier then when it was for sex. Doubt will ever want to meet for kink at tjis site. I do kink only. Not d/s. To many who are not honest in they are a top only, not a dom. I get the wannabe doms who THINK i have to talk with them. While it is true it can happen at that other site, not alt i haven't run across that. Not even once.

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aflower2c replies on 4/15/2019 7:38 pm:
Im a top sadist that is a pleasure seeking hedonist, an aspiring rigger for kinbaku and
hojojutsu. Lol
I do not do male led d/s, I'm more for s&m or m&s and bondage with impact play, and a few other fun things.
But the only time I will do hookup kink is at public play parties and practice nights.

2115 posts
4/15/2019 6:30 pm

dating ?
pool ?

what's that ?

aflower2c replies on 4/15/2019 7:39 pm:
For those that are looking for more that nsa/anonymous sex. Lol

Paulxx001 62M  
7628 posts
4/15/2019 6:39 pm

Paid mortgage? Maybe you should put that on your profile... change only blogging to - willing to meet.... and yeah...
But we've had this discussion before. No understanding what's going on in your part of the world. Men are wired differently over there? Too much lead in the beer they drink? 🍻😶

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aflower2c replies on 4/15/2019 7:40 pm:
No interest in meeting from this site, lessons learned to avoid men on here. Lol

TJwanderer98 38M
8 posts
4/15/2019 7:44 pm

Date kinky guys???

aflower2c replies on 4/15/2019 8:28 pm:
Lol, where do you find those????

JudeL5 48M
1611 posts
4/15/2019 8:54 pm has always had basic non-pay contact. Used to be email after a friend request. Now it is IM. Only good for first contact....paying is cost- benefit. Not worth paying for more than a month at this have your answer, or no answer after that. Better off buying lottery tickets after that.

aflower2c replies on 4/15/2019 9:49 pm:
Why bother with this site?
Men made it clear they prefer to meet off of paid standard dating sites for anything beyond a nsa/anonymous situation.

Sex sites charge bec men want easy sex like ordering from amazon.

Newfunspkn2019 30M
6 posts
4/15/2019 10:39 pm

Such a true comment

JudeL5 48M
1611 posts
4/15/2019 11:33 pm

Why bother with this site?
From time to time some of the blogs have some interesting posts

aflower2c replies on 4/16/2019 7:04 am:
Reading blogs is different than searching for people. Two different things don't answer the question.

dabrown33 45M
561 posts
4/16/2019 12:28 am

Small dating pool? What dating pool? Sands of the sahara here, and the oasis are just a mirage.

You get to disqualify guys for whatever reasons you choose. Your experience gives you a filter and you have very specific needs and wants. Nothing wrong with that. Baffles me a bit, but I'm not in your situation and likely never will be. It's hard to see another person's point of view when the experiences are so vastly different.

It sucks that what you want, doesn't want you back. Unfortunately that part I understand.

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aflower2c replies on 4/16/2019 7:09 am:
That was a choice you made for your whole adult life to not meet women, don't vilify me for having experience and knowing what works for me and what doesnt. Nsa/anonymous sex does nothing for my sex drive and sexual confidence as a single person, if anything ut us a constant reminder thats all you are good for. So try to think outside of your box and maybe visit areas with a high female population.

SelflessLover068 59M  
28070 posts
4/16/2019 5:53 am

I wouldn't pay to belong to a dating site as my experience has been most profiles are fake or the people there are just playing games... And from my experience here there are so many problems with glitches and things just not working.
I haven't even had any success just finding a woman to go to the Cher concert in Toronto and there's like 3 million people here.
Wishing you the best of luck in your little pond n have a grrrrrrrrrreat day

aflower2c replies on 4/16/2019 7:06 am:
I have a short friend that is 65, he has no trouble finding dates. Maybe its your location

Desir4Fire 44M  
1744 posts
4/16/2019 9:14 am

Ms Flowers,
That is a lot of difficult questions to answer.
I will keep my fingers crossed for you to get the answers you need.

aflower2c 45F  
13099 posts
4/16/2019 11:26 am

Obviously not talking about this site or using this site to meet people, you all made it clear that this site shouldn't be used to search for ongoing partners.
But I know many also search on standard dating sites whether you want to admit it or not. Lol

Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.

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