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Anonymous Message Drop
Posted:Jul 17, 2018 6:52 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2019 8:22 am
This is where anyone can write and what is written will stay between us. I have chatted with you or messaged you then either we are on at different times or someone has out bid me to be your fan and I can no longer message you. I would hope you would use this as an avenue to reconnect or just introduce yourself.

Either way, come sit a spell and if you feel like it, open the conversation and tell me a little about yourself. Do not worry. I dont bite.

WOW! 9000+ views and only one woman takes the time to say "Hi!" to me?
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Fake Profiles???
Posted:Oct 1, 2019 11:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2019 6:20 am
Recently I have witnessed several *OLD* profiles become available to bid on as if they were recent members and a 50 pt bid would return 45 pts to your . But not a single one has replied. I question old profiles to begin with but when a rash of them have their profile *top bidder* reinitiated, I can only conclude that is posting fake profiles to keep men involved and for standard users, like myself, to waste their precious points on.

Have other been suspicious of this. I read a recent report made by a police unit that stated that sites such as this one have begun to pepper themselves with fake female adds. They did not names this site specifically like they did others, but I remember Ashley Madison was a great one for fake profiles. For as many owners this site has had over the years, it remains hard for me to believe they do not resort to the same practice.

just mine observance and suspicion.
Hope can be a dangerous thing
Posted:Sep 27, 2019 10:39 am
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2019 7:08 pm
It has been a solid 6 yrs since I last touched a woman. Hope can truly be a dangerous thing even as Red warned Andy in Shawshank. It can drive a man insane. And yet, hope is the quintessential trait of all humans. Even our fantasies are silent hopes. To paraphrase the Shadout Mepes of DUNE, "When one has lived with hope for so long, the moment of realization comes as something of a shock."

Hopefully... the long drought will end tomorrow night. She is half my age and so attractive I have to keep pinching myself. Five foot two, eyes of blue with straight blonde hair that reaches half way down her back. Slender, petite, great smile, high cheek bones and bright eyes. What dumb luck to meet her where I did. (NOT here!)

I don't kiss and tell so will not post any of her pictures here. There are two sides to her (don't we all have one of those?). She is fun loving, lady like in her naughty desires and yet, I sense a deep vulnerability within her. She trusts way too quickly (like myself). She is ever so gracious and forgiving to the point where it almost causes concern. Women of her ilk are like beautiful butterflies. Enjoy it when they light upon you but be ever so careful not crush their delicate wings. I am torn.

I am torn between satiating the hunger that has eaten at me for so many years and that of setting self aside to feed her soul's needs, not her physical wants. Only time and circumstance will tell what plays out. I know that perhaps as she opens her door and invites me that we may never make our dinner date. I know that both of us imagine and fantasize about just how good we can be physically for the other. Yet it keeps gnawing at me that she lies to herself that being loved physically is going to feed her desire to be loved wholly apart from the fleshly entanglements.

22 hrs. Only 22 hrs till life plays its hand.

Older Men
Posted:Aug 30, 2019 5:39 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2019 12:45 pm

1 Older men are more mature than 99% of the guys your own age.
2 Older men desire to make you feel more secure and safe.
3 Older men tend to be natural leaders (dom).
4 Older men have a more imaginative naughty side.
5 Older men are more verbally expressive during intimate moments.
6 Older men are more confident and experienced.
7 Older men now how to wear a suit.
8 Older men are more focused on their partner than themselves sexually.
9 Older men are usually more financially secure.
10 Older men have a larger vocabulary and are more willing to listen to yours.
11 Older men are more patient, less rushed and more forgiving.
12 Older men know how to kiss better
13 Older men are quite simply more appreciative in a much deeper sense.
14 Older men are far less likely to be distracted by other women when out with you.

Care to add your own thoughts? [Try to be difficult as that might be for you.]


What criteria lets you meet others?
Posted:Aug 20, 2019 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2019 8:55 am
What criteria lets you meet others?

That’s not a good title but I wanted keep it brief. The question is directed more towards women. Most men have the criteria demand being that of availability and permission. In the military, I heard it often said, “ nine to ninety, blind, crippled or crazy.” Young and horny.

THe question then is for you ladies. What criteria do you require answer someones inquiry? What is your "grid" through which you filter those whom you elect to respond to and what automatically has you passing by? Maybe you have never thought about this pragmatically. But I would be deeply interested. The reason I am asking is that today, someone with whom I have chatted with off site for a time now, wrote this to me today:

You have the body other men wish they had.

We were talking about the wearing of nylons. She said she could never wear thigh highs and then not often. I responded that legs are probably my best attribute. A little color (tanning) and a little oil can do wonders. Of course it helps bike 25 miles a day before going the gym. So it was then that she wrote the above quote to which I responded:

Having this body has not been of any advantage with the lady folk. I have had more than a few tell me they do not like athletically fit men. If I had guess, I would imagine they feel intimidated by me because they themselves are younger and have not taken care of their bodies.

She replied:

I think you have the nail on the head when you said that they are intimidated because they have not taken care of themselves.

So this got me to thinking. What criteria do women generally find that turns them away from a profile while accepting another? Is it primarily physical? What is your yardstick, your touchstone that grants a reply from you when someone contacts you or better yet, extrudes you to where you contact them? How important is a wordsmith? How important is it for them to align with your personal fantasy?

You can respond here openly or if you want to respond privately, you can reply at my Anonymous Massage in blog. Thx. arbitrarily removes words and letters from my posts. Weird.
Black and White
Posted:Aug 19, 2019 6:24 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2019 11:41 am
I have always thought black and white photos added a bit of mystic.
That Dark Side
Posted:Aug 14, 2019 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2019 8:30 am
Is everyone here about sex? Are there not people who exist anymore who are able hold a conversation? Is there no else here who wants know the mind of another? Sure, physical intimacy is great. I think that is what 99.99% of subscribers are here for. But what about intimacy on a deeper level?

[JD MacDonald] Bed is dangerous country. The physical act is the least chancy part of it, requiring health, maturity and a reasonable consideration. It is the emotional interaction that makes it mysterious and perilous, turning it into something that mankind finds so endlessly interesting.

Yes it does.

OK Twix, NOT funny!!!
Posted:Aug 13, 2019 3:08 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2019 6:18 pm
When did being old and white become such a negative? LOL
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Keeping distance: Dd -lg
Posted:Aug 9, 2019 2:06 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2019 6:21 pm
Even if only as friends, it could be something really, really good. Or does the thought of it gross you out? Having been a teacher for many years, I saw both reactions.

The Reality of Being Horny and Age
Posted:Aug 7, 2019 4:36 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2019 12:46 pm
I have read blogs on here who seem to verify my own particular feelings of that getting older and NOT getting any less hornier. In fact, it seems to have only increased. Sure, there are seasons where the tide is out . But those are rare and short lived.

Are there others there who have the same dilemma? And I do consider it a dilemma because as I have aged, the prospects of finding a willing partner have deescalated substantially. That only increases the frustration.

Also,I think pornography is a major factor in decreasing real sexual energy and performance in men. Agree/disagree men?

I also read an AMJ article that warned that women who employ vibrating toys to produce orgasms, will, over time, wire both their bodies and their brains in such a way that that paradigm will be the only way in which such a woman will be able produce a satisfactory orgasm.

Any comments on that ladies?
Sweet Melissa
Posted:Aug 4, 2019 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 11:59 am
If you had sex everyday of the year and saved all the condoms and made a tire out them, what would you call it? Goodyear!

Sunday night humor
Posted:Aug 4, 2019 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2019 8:33 am
me me

Wednesday night humor
Posted:Jul 31, 2019 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2019 6:20 am
Why do you attend Renaissance Fairs?

You know you're a redneck if....

Reality sucks!

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