Inclusive or Exclusive?  

redrockrascal 60M
6859 posts
10/26/2018 7:39 pm
Inclusive or Exclusive?



The people on these siteS are in effect a grouping of people based on a variety of sexual interests. I use the term siteS specifically, and often, because some people here are not aware that what they are seeing is a single database comprised of many different site names (hundreds) and groups such as: religions, nationalities, ethnicities, sexual preferences, likes and dislikes, among a slew of other possibilities.

So we all know what these 2 adjectives mean . . .
“Exclusive” means “either this or that, but not both.
“Inclusive” means “either this, or that, or both.”
Further . . .

Inclusive involves the full and successful integration of diverse people into a place or group. Additionally, inclusive groups extend beyond basic or token presence of different people.

Exclusive restricts, limits or rejects people, or groups of people.

So . . . if a group is exclusive who does the group exclude and for what reason(s)? Then, once that is decided . . . do we exclude those who like, but are not part of, group A or B or C or all of them? Remember someone in an excluded group may be someone we like or may even meet or . . . more. Maybe they are the elusive “one” – but you’ll not meet them because they were – excluded. That’s all pretty complicated and it doesn’t even address . . . unknown and/or unintended consequences.

Oh, and who makes the decision to exclude what group(s) of people?

Me, I really a pretty simple person. With being inclusive none of those decisions have to be made. You just log into the site a do what you want to do and ignore those who you aren’t interested in – pretty simple. There is an advantage in being inclusive. For me, as a guy, I get to appreciate and experience all kinds of different women because none of them have been excluded. Also, since no one is excluded there may be more women and more women afford me, and other guys, more opportunities to meet and have . . . sex.

So what say you do you prefer the site be Inclusive or Exclusive? If exclusive who would you exclude and why?



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redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
11/12/2018 8:03 pm

    Quoting Rede4mor519:
    Absolutely should be inclusive. Leave the excluding to personal preferences.
I completely agree. Thanks for commenting.

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Rede4mor519 60M/55F
9 posts
11/12/2018 6:42 pm

Absolutely should be inclusive. Leave the excluding to personal preferences.


author51 55F  
63494 posts
11/5/2018 8:59 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I was referring to the site but thank you for your input.
So was I about the groups on the site where I am either included or excluded from...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
11/1/2018 3:23 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I just figured out where the f..king bathrooms are in this place . . . What ?
    Yeah . . There is a lot of stuff going on that I just stay away from .. But if there is a buffet . . then I'm all for inclusive !!!
Yes the buffet is included - don't forget to tip your waiter.

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Paulxx001 61M  
2994 posts
10/30/2018 8:49 am

I just figured out where the f..king bathrooms are in this place . . . What ?
Yeah . . There is a lot of stuff going on that I just stay away from .. But if there is a buffet . . then I'm all for inclusive !!!

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redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/29/2018 3:59 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    The ability to exclude is not necessarily an indicator of exclusivity. In my own experience, it is merely an indication that the excluders are dicks.........

    There are secret groups and groups within secret groups and groups within groups within secret groups..........and they are exclusive........aye, they're also dicks.

    Inclusivity, now that's the mark of a true gentleman. Which makes me a dick, because I exclude trumpists/fascists.
What you say is quite true McKilty. However, there are times when exclusion is necessary - for instance excluding trumpists/fascists and other forms of assholiness.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lindoboy100 55M
19862 posts
10/29/2018 2:12 pm

The ability to exclude is not necessarily an indicator of exclusivity. In my own experience, it is merely an indication that the excluders are dicks.........

There are secret groups and groups within secret groups and groups within groups within secret groups..........and they are exclusive........aye, they're also dicks.

Inclusivity, now that's the mark of a true gentleman. Which makes me a dick, because I exclude trumpists/fascists.

Wake up and hold yer noses.........


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/29/2018 10:49 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    If this site was exclusive, I'm guessing it would certainly cost more?
Yeah, I imagine it would.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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citizen4722 60M  
58799 posts
10/29/2018 9:19 am

If this site was exclusive, I'm guessing it would certainly cost more?


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/28/2018 11:32 am

    Quoting author51:
    If one is talking about an exclusive couple than that is how I lean.. I have excluded and been excluded from groups and that is okay by me. I tend to be more of a loner. I am included in a few things as well as some wonderful friendships. The ones who truly matter to me. I swing both ways on this issue..
I was referring to the site but thank you for your input.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/28/2018 11:31 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Great blog Red and you nailed this one, I am not choosing either as I am just here to have fun for the most part. In the past here on the site have met many wonderful people. I hope you have a great weekend..
Thanks T

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/28/2018 11:30 am

No fries I watch my figure but I'l have a shake

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/28/2018 11:29 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    " Also, since no one is excluded there may be more women and more women afford me, and other guys, more opportunities to meet and have . . . sex."
    Works well from the women's perspective, too. Even though the men outnumber us, being exclusive may just keep "the one" from being on this site so there would be no chance to meet and have....interactions. lol
Good point PCG.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


author51 55F  
63494 posts
10/28/2018 1:25 am

If one is talking about an exclusive couple than that is how I lean.. I have excluded and been excluded from groups and that is okay by me. I tend to be more of a loner. I am included in a few things as well as some wonderful friendships. The ones who truly matter to me. I swing both ways on this issue..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


superbjversion2 63F  
13142 posts
10/27/2018 12:35 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    But, but, but, football and boobs are a great combo
Well, when hanging loose, mine are rather football shaped.

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Tmptrzz 56F  
51099 posts
10/27/2018 10:01 am

Great blog Red and you nailed this one, I am not choosing either as I am just here to have fun for the most part. In the past here on the site have met many wonderful people. I hope you have a great weekend..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


BiggLala 46F  
24086 posts
10/27/2018 7:31 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    YAY, I'm included with you . . . uhmmm . . . what's included with that deal?
Fries? A drink?

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pagancountrygirl 60F
3611 posts
10/27/2018 6:59 am

" Also, since no one is excluded there may be more women and more women afford me, and other guys, more opportunities to meet and have . . . sex."
Works well from the women's perspective, too. Even though the men outnumber us, being exclusive may just keep "the one" from being on this site so there would be no chance to meet and have....interactions. lol

Pagan
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redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:56 am

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I like to think I am inclusive but have to admit that no I am not always. There are things I draw the line at.

    You are included.... though
YAY, I'm included with you . . . uhmmm . . . what's included with that deal?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:54 am

It looks like all of us are included in liking inclusiveness

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:53 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Makes sense to be inclusive. And if there's anything I dislike, then I'll use the site filters so they don't show up in any search results.
As long as you're not baffled by it

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:52 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    It certainly helps to be
    inclusive. There's really no doubt that the
    inclusive are more open minded and the exclusives
    not so much so.

    There are the exclusively inclusives that kind of
    contradict themselves but where they make it up is
    by being extremely illusive!
Ha ha I see what you included there . . . inclusive, exclusive, illusive

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:50 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Wow! I am way too stoned to understand what saying, but Inclusive me in!
I am way too stoned Thee are words I never thought I would hear from you.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:48 am

    Quoting dabrown33:
    Inclusive! There is stuff I'm not interested in, but I can simply ignore or pass over it. Only thing I'd exclude are things that are illegal. Even that isn't an absolute, as there are things that are illegal in some countries that aren't in others.

    As far as what i allow on my blog, I have yet to block anyone (though one more patronizing post out of a certain heathen will get him blocked) but I am trying to be open minded. This isn't my parents' community center.
Yeah, somehow I don't think my parents would approve of this place.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:46 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I like things being inclusive. That means I can visit your blog - even though I don't like football. And I can visit that coffee lovers blog even though I don't like coffee. And you can visit my blog even on the days that I don't show my boobs.
But, but, but, football and boobs are a great combo

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:45 am

    Quoting kinkyfem73:
    Anyone who wants to be here should be allowed. Much like in real life, if I don’t want to interact with them I don’t have to!
Yay! Cause I lurves interacting with you

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:43 am

Yup, inclusive works well.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:43 am

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    I think it should include anyone who wants to be here.

    I don't have to interact with them, anymore than I have to agree with them
Exactly

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 60M
18794 posts
10/27/2018 6:42 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Oh, and who makes the decision to exclude what group(s) of people?
    -Meeee I do, I do. You know it's all about me. Anyone who doesn't like it can get off this site!!! 🙋🏽

    For me, as a guy, I get to appreciate and experience all kinds of different women because none of them have been excluded.
    -Just...greedy! 😜

    Doooood! Duh, obviously anyone not DTF is excluded from 'this site'. What is wrong with you? Do you know what site you're on? This is a sexxxuh siteuh! 😏
Greed is guud even on a sexxxuh siteuh

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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Naughtypursuit 51F  
1486 posts
10/27/2018 6:08 am

I like to think I am inclusive but have to admit that no I am not always. There are things I draw the line at.

You are included.... though


sexyldy1000 57F  
1611 posts
10/27/2018 2:37 am

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    I think it should include anyone who wants to be here.

    I don't have to interact with them, anymore than I have to agree with them
Well said! I agree

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


MyBaffies 49M
2603 posts
10/27/2018 2:19 am

Makes sense to be inclusive. And if there's anything I dislike, then I'll use the site filters so they don't show up in any search results.

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s2ndegree 59M  
8252 posts
10/26/2018 11:15 pm

It certainly helps to be
inclusive. There's really no doubt that the
inclusive are more open minded and the exclusives
not so much so.

There are the exclusively inclusives that kind of
contradict themselves but where they make it up is
by being extremely illusive!

Using more than all the road!


mc_justmc 58M  
4016 posts
10/26/2018 10:38 pm

Wow! I am way too stoned to understand what saying, but Inclusive me in!

I always put the toilet seat down...


dabrown33 44M
203 posts
10/26/2018 10:18 pm

Inclusive! There is stuff I'm not interested in, but I can simply ignore or pass over it. Only thing I'd exclude are things that are illegal. Even that isn't an absolute, as there are things that are illegal in some countries that aren't in others.

As far as what i allow on my blog, I have yet to block anyone (though one more patronizing post out of a certain heathen will get him blocked) but I am trying to be open minded. This isn't my parents' community center.

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superbjversion2 63F  
13142 posts
10/26/2018 9:20 pm

I like things being inclusive. That means I can visit your blog - even though I don't like football. And I can visit that coffee lovers blog even though I don't like coffee. And you can visit my blog even on the days that I don't show my boobs.

I put the Sex in Sexagenarian


kinkyfem73 45F  
32497 posts
10/26/2018 9:14 pm

Anyone who wants to be here should be allowed. Much like in real life, if I don’t want to interact with them I don’t have to!

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LustingInDeLoops 56F  

10/26/2018 8:59 pm

I'm pro Inclusive too!

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FMAOPLS 65F  
24292 posts
10/26/2018 8:38 pm

I think it should include anyone who wants to be here.

I don't have to interact with them, anymore than I have to agree with them

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BiggLala 46F  
24086 posts
10/26/2018 7:52 pm

Oh, and who makes the decision to exclude what group(s) of people?
-Meeee I do, I do. You know it's all about me. Anyone who doesn't like it can get off this site!!! 🙋🏽

For me, as a guy, I get to appreciate and experience all kinds of different women because none of them have been excluded.
-Just...greedy! 😜

Doooood! Duh, obviously anyone not DTF is excluded from 'this site'. What is wrong with you? Do you know what site you're on? This is a sexxxuh siteuh! 😏

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redrockrascal 60M
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10/26/2018 7:40 pm

a bump post so this will be included on "the big list".

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