Can a bad person, turn out to be good? Can a person redeem themselves? Maybe, I had a uncle who was a son of a bitch. He was abusive to my aunt, wasn't a good father. On some payday he would gamble his check and lose all his money , and my aunt wouldn't see him for several day. My aunt had to pay all the bills. My aunt must have really loved this man! She had four kids with him, and never filed for divorce. She was his rock when he was down and out, she always took him back when he left, and when he was sick she nursed him back to health. There was one time he admitted that he didn't deserve such a loving woman. Years later she died, and he inherited everything she owned, two cars, a little money and a house, along with the life insurance policy. Family members was upset, and thought he shouldn't have gotten anything. Later in years, my dad died. He was a good man, good father and everyone loved him. He was 6yrs younger than my uncle. I was upset, why would God take a good man and let a horrible man remain alive? I look at life as unfair, I was hurt. But as time passed by, my uncle started to change. He gave up drinking, cussing, and started to go to church once in a while. His child, my cousin moved in with him. He tried to reach out to the other children, but my oldest cousin refused to acknowledge him. His health start to deteriorate, so my cousin was there to take care of her dad. At times, I talked to other family members and they said he did 180 degree turned. I couldn't believe it, with in a year he died. Then I thought about it, my dad was a good man, and did all he had to do so god took him, and my uncle was spared and given a chance to redeem himself. It took much longer for my uncle, compared to my dad. So the question is? Can we be redeem? Maybe if we live long enough, we can!
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Posted:Apr 20, 2019 12:35 pm
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Today, would be a good day to motivate someone and "Encourage" them!

"What songs reminds you....
Posted:Apr 20, 2019 8:54 am
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There's a few from my past, that's back on the market. I dumped a few and quite a few dumped ! not saying Captain Kirk, for he's the Baddest Mutherfucker in space! Getting back to the subject, there a song to describe with several women, I dated or been with.

There's one, the song for her would be "Break up to make up". That all we do! Recently I written a blogs about a , I love since I was 7. I though about her a few weeks ago. A song for that situation would be "Even now". I dated a women how like a version of Janet Reno. That right, Janet Reno!

One day, I drop by, she was chopping her coffee table with a butcher's knife and was very angry! She and said, "Do I like Janet Reno"? I said, Hell no! Then she throw the butcher's knife in the wall. She was always a psychopath. So the song for her would be "I go crazy"! And she was crazy,

Oh yeah, can't forget about the Nympho, the song for her would be "Super Freak"! She was that. There was a older woman in my life in my early 20s. I got drunk and pissed her off and went to my bad, I heard some knifes rattling, so I called her back and said, sorry.

But, If I didn't here the rattling and she came in with the knife, my song that would had reminded me of her would had been. "Help"! I would had scream it. There was one who heart was broken in a millions pieces, so the song for her would be . "I don't believe in love".

There was a Native woman, that I knew, we did our thing. This was over 25 years ago.
By her being intimate with a black man, that's me. The song that would remind me of her would be "Jungle Love"! For she have Jungle Fever. Even more years back, I went on a few dates with a dime!

So one day, she drop by, and she allowed me to have sex with her. So the song for her is "One". After that night, I never heard to seen her again. We was One and done!
I been divorce for 30 years, my ex is getting another divorce. A teacher, I dated about 20 years ago is also available. But a year ago, the teacher and I did a few things.

I was now a friend, she told she cheated on the 3 years we dated. The "Make up Break up" is back on the market. Should I go for it? No way! There's a song for all 3 of them! "I can't go for that"! No can do! "What songs reminds you of someone you dated or dating"?

"The pretty one"!
Posted:Apr 17, 2019 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2019 7:08 am
There was a man who had . A wife of course. was the Apple of his eyes, while the other would sometime cry. could do no wrong, while the other , everything she did was always wrong. There is who got A's and B's, while they was happy with the who got C's.

It's not fair, it didn't bother the man for he didn't care, I do admit, was a dime! Even though she was my cousin, she is fine! The might not been born with the looks, but she was the master, when it comes to the books. She was smart as a tack, but her dad treat her whack!

They didn't treat her like the pretty ! For her, life was no fun. We got together once a , in New York for our family reunion. I must had been , back then. Everyone when out their way to greet the pretty one, she was too. So when the other was feeling low, I walked to her and said, "Hello"!

The are treated different between day and night. 'It's not fair or just right. The other was not only smart, she had intelligences off the charts! She could several instruments, was her skill. she could do almost anything was her will. But she wasn't "The pretty one.

Don't get wrong, my uncle didn't abuse her in any way! "I love you", was the words, he didn't say. Even though "The pretty ", didn't have talents like her sister, but her looks, overruled her sister's talent! Even over the , "The pretty one ", got all the fame. It's a crying shame

The other sister had problem never solved, seem like her happiness was robbed! So when my uncle died, he left majority of everything he own to his wife and of course, to "The pretty one "!

"3 reasons why a person........
Posted:Apr 16, 2019 8:39 pm
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I had a job I liked. There wasn't much advancement, or opportunities, but I did it. I worked with a friend, and I was second in charged behind him. I didn't make much time, I was OK with it. The placed I worked decided to hire a contractor to do the job, and I got moved somewhere else.

I was mad, they did me a favor, I walked and got a better job. It was an entry level job. This was nice, but something even better open , this time, I got lucky! I was 37 and it was time to get a job with benefits and retirement. Again, I stared off a entry level, the new company. Then after a while, I got another job within the company.

This job was 10X better than what I was doing. But eventually the company close shop and we got put elsewhere, with not enough college, I got put in Transportation. Over there is the one thing, I really don't like to do! There's a reason why or a method to the madness!

What is it? It's not illegal, but I have a phobia about this part of the job. When I do other things in the job, it's not bad and I love coming to work. But one thing I dislike, If I had to do Regularly. I was going trying to bid on other jobs but I have no connects and I was even considering retirement and work for another company.

So, the "3 reasons why a person might leave their job" . Is! First someone might not like what they do. Second, they might have a phobia about something about the job. Third , or worst they might have a fear doing task.

"I came to this conclusion......
Posted:Apr 13, 2019 4:22 pm
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1. Monday the Va. Cavaliers won the college basketball championship. I'm from Va. and we never won anything! We'll we don't have any pro sports, but we had a little luck and there was fouls that weren't called and we won!

2. In 1969, the New York Jets, beat the Baltimore Colts in the super bowl, they had the worst odds to win it all at that time. They upset the Colts and this was one of the greatest upset at that time.

3.In 1990, the undefeated Mike Tyson fought Buster Douglass. Douglass was a 42-1 underdog and he knocked Mike Tyson out!

4. Miracle on Ice! The 1980 USA Olympic Hockey team, upset the super powered Soviet Union team 4-3.

5. In the 2008 super bowl, the New England Patriots was undefeated 18-0, and played the New York Giants. The Giants last drive, the receiver caught the ball on his helmet, and kept the drive going, and the Giants won the super bowl.

6.The Chicago Cubs haven't won a worlds series in 108 years, in 2016 they beat the Cleveland Indians in game of the world series.

7.In Nov 14, 2015, Holly Holm knock out champ Ronda Rousey, with a kick to the head. in MMA fight, this was the biggest upset in sports at that time.

8.In 2016, in the NBA finals, the NBA champs Golden State Warriors was up 3 to 1 to the Cleveland Cavaliers, and the Cavs came back and won the next 3 games and won it all.

9. In 2016, the NBA Western conference finals, before the finals. The Golden State Warriors was down 3 to 1 to the Oklahoma City Thunders and came back to win the series, only to lose the Cavaliers in the finals.

10. In 1925 the Pittsburgh Pirates vs the Washing Senators in the worlds series, the Pirates came back from being down 3 to 1. to win it all. This was the first team to came back from 3 to 1.

I know there's a such a thing as luck, or sometimes team might get lucky. BUT! "I came to this conclusion, that God must love sport!!!! He creates a few miracles and his team wins! That simple.

"National friendship day".
Posted:Apr 13, 2019 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2019 12:12 pm
I know this is a sex site, but I appreciate the great blogs, you write and appreciate you allowing to view. And I appreciate you viewing mines. So today is a good day for "National Friendship Day".

"After all these years"!
Posted:Apr 12, 2019 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2019 11:08 am
About 50 years ago. I was young. Of course I was. I was 7 at that time. There was a girl I grew up with, we was the same age. I was 3 months older. So today, I had this on my mind. "After all these years". At age 7 what do you know about love? But, I guess I was unusual or just a kid in love.

For at a young age, my eyes adored her! I was a skinny kid and not most handsomest child in the neighborhood. But what the heck, I said my peace, and told her I love her, and we'll be married, she'll smile but never said a word. So after age of 10, I started writing love letters and poetry.

I guess I was a romantic little devil. At the age of 13, we when on a date. She want to the movies with me. I was shy and didn't try to kiss her, and The Beatles songs was on my mind. "I want to hold your hand", but I didn't. The date went well, in my mind, I vision her in my future.

A few months later, I found out she was pregnant, I was sad. So I decide to change my future plans. After high school, I joined the Air Force, Over the years, I heard she had many bad relationships. 8 children by different men. I got out military, got married and divorced and had 1 child. I stayed in NM.

20 years ago, give or take a few years, I was going to visit my family in VA. My mom call me a day before and told me, my childhood crush moms, want me to take her back to NM with me and we can start a life together. "After all these years". I was willing to take the offer.

I come home to visit, my mom call her and she came by. I was so happy! "After all these years". We talked, but she didn't say much, I ask her how things, and she didn't give me any eye contact. I said, WOW! So after a while, she left and we hugged. My mom came downstairs with a smile on her face.

She said, in a happy voice. "Are you and Cathy, going to be an item??? I look my mom in the face and said "NO"! My mom say why? I told her, "I'm still not what she's looking for , "After all these years"! For some reason, tears came from my eyes.

"We all love adult humor, right..........
Posted:Apr 12, 2019 10:30 am
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We all love adult humor, right? Since it's "Joke" Friday, I said , what the heck! "Joke Friday" is the 2nd Friday in April. So everyone , share a joke or two with a friend. From G- rated to XXX. Happy Friday.

"Let's talk about sex, baby'!
Posted:Apr 10, 2019 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2019 10:53 am
Man, I so glad God created women! I love making love with someone, especially if there's a connection! Some people but sex and love in two different category. But it's not! If you having sex with someone you love, it's not! They both in the same category.

Here' a few love quotes, some might be naughty.

"Oldies but goodies".
Posted:Apr 9, 2019 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2019 7:19 pm
Today, shared a little laughter, so now I was to share my laughter with you. "Oldies but goodies".

"You don't get a second chance"!
Posted:Apr 7, 2019 4:14 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2019 5:06 pm
Adam Sandler wrote a movie called "50 First dates". I could write a book called A million first dates, seem like I been on a million. I'll be a gentleman. we have a good time, laugh and I don't say nothing . After a day or so, I hear the same sing and dance routine. Drew, your a good man, I feel there's no connection and I wish you the best. I almost here it word for word.

Is there a book out there, women have to end things, before it get started? I went on dated with women of other races, said they like black men, and I hear the same thing. I don't think I look like Freddy Kruger? Hell, he might have a better connection. Hey, he might have more game! I notice something, the other day.

Women who is educated, who has a career, or just have the basic. A job, palace to live, and a car. Are the ones who say the same lines. But if there a woman who struggling, or between jobs, or even has a room mate, they are interested! Why is ? I don't ask a person status, or situation when I go on a date with them.

I guess it's different with women, maybe it's just me? I can offer kindness, a good conversation. a man who enjoy the simple things in life. Honest and sincere. educated too! Maybe at times I don't use the proper wording. I always put my best foot forward, and be respectful. Didn't get me wrong, I also love sex too.

When they end it, they don't even want to be friends! maybe I don't fit the bill or meet their criteria. Whatever the case, if you don't "Wow"! them on the first date, Believe me! "You don't get a second chance!

"Adult humor"
Posted:Apr 7, 2019 7:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2019 6:57 pm
Morning, It good to start the day with a little "Adult Humor". It might make your day.

"I wouldn't change a thing"!
Posted:Apr 6, 2019 7:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2019 6:22 pm
What if. you can go back and redo your life, or change things for a different outcome? But the catch you have to go back 30 years or more, depending on your age. You would be given wisdom to make the right choices, and you'll create a new path. You would be guaranteed to be successful!

But the catch, everything you done didn't happen, and the people in your life didn't exist, there was be new people and a new family. You'll would take advantage of every opportunity and you would leave any stone unturned. It would start in high school, you would be a student of honor. Everything would start from there!

You get to be an educated person, if you decide to join the military, you'll be an officer instead of an enlisted. A whole different path, you would have the perfect mate, you'll be in a different state, and you mate would be on the same level. They would adore you and you wouldn't have a divorce on your track record.

You would never have to say "What If", again in life, for everything you desire you would have achieved! A person would be a fool, not to take this wish! This is a win-win situation. I not going to lie. I have depression and there are times I feel like a failure. I'm a underachiever!

Most people be like, "Where do I sign"! I have a daughter in her 30s, two grand children that loves me, a great son-in law. With them in my life, I feel like, "I might had failed, but I'm no failure"! I at times like a so-so life. So if the magic Genie say to me. "Drew, do you want the perfect life"? But, everything must change!

Even though, my life not perfect, but I have people in my life, that's would more than a king's ransom or a pot of gold! I would tell the Genie "NO"! I wouldn't change a thing!


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